Showing posts with label graduation speech. Show all posts
Showing posts with label graduation speech. Show all posts

Thursday, June 21, 2012

Meaningful Work

One of my favorite things each year at my amazing school is that I get to give a speech at our 8th year graduation.  It is a very moving ceremony each year, because many of our graduates have been in the school since they were very, very young--some as young as two years old!  Last year, the theme of my speech was Believe Impossible Things, but this year I took a different tone:


Meaningful Work
by Rebecca Kaplan

Good evening, everyone!  I am happy to see you all here tonight.  The theme of my speech this evening is one that is very dear to all Montessorians.  It is entitled, “Meaningful Work”.  I read a book this year called Outliers, by Malcolm Gladwell.  It was absolutely fascinating, I couldn’t put it down.  It is an amazing work of nonfiction that discusses the relationship between opportunity and meaningful work in the context of some of the most interesting people in our country.  Has anyone in here read this book?  Well, if you haven’t, I highly recommend it.  Malcolm talks at length about the meaningful work that we all are looking for and this is what he says about it:

“Those three things--autonomy, complexity, and a connection between effort and reward--are, most people agree, the three qualities that work has to have if it is to be satisfying.  Whether or not our work is fulfilling is what ultimately makes us happy.  Being a teacher is meaningful. Being a physician is meaningful.  Hard work is a prison sentence only if it does not have meaning.  Once it does, it becomes the kind of thing that makes you grab [your family} and dance a jig.” (p.149)

When you feel the way I do about the universe--the way it is put together and the way it is expanding and unfolding--you can see that it is easy for me to love being a science teacher and to find my work meaningful.  And if you look at this fantastic group of students sitting up here on the dais you can understand how much more rewarding and meaningful my work has been for me over the past two years.

I would like to extend my sincerest and most profound gratitude to each student and to their parents.  I have had the chance to be their science teacher, SSAT coach, lunch server, recess supervisor, student advisor and “professional expert project consultant” and I have enjoyed every minute.  The two years I have spent with these young men and women are two of the most extraordinary years in my career.

Never before have I been given the opportunity to spend as much time with my students as I have with you--getting to know you, laughing with you and learning how you learn best.  How rewarding it has been to be met with such willing dedication, passionate enthusiasm, tenacious hard work and above all, exuberant good humor.  We have done a lot of hard work, but we have also had a lot of fun.

Some of our work over the past two years includes:
  • Discovering Newton’s Laws, or “rolling lots of marbles down a track”.
  • Learning the foundations of experimental design, aka “making coke and mentos fountains”.
  • The principles of rocket science, affectionately referred to as “blowing stuff up”.
  • Exploring phase changes in matter, or “making ice cream in a bag”.
  • Discovering chemical and physical changes, which I like to refer to as “lighting things on fire”.
  • Learning the relationship between astronomy and cartography in navigation, or “getting lost in the athletic field (which is flat and has no trees) even though you had a compass and directions”.
  • Modeling the layers of the earth (playing with clay and playdough).
  • Using solar observations and models to prove the direction of the rotation of the earth, or “drawing with chalk all over the parking lot”.
  • Experimenting to examine a heating curve of H2O, affectionately nicknamed by the students as the “watching grass grow” lab.
  • Last and most: the extraordinary Expert Project.

The Expert Project was a complex independent study project that was hard work that came with an exciting and satisfying payoff at the end.  So, “Expert” and all of these other works that I have just told you about have in common the very qualities of meaningful work that Malcolm Gladwell was talking about in his book.   You can tell when you are doing meaningful work--it always has that same feeling: it’s hard work, but it’s easier somehow.  It is satisfying.  In fact, many times it also feels exhilarating.

Think back, everyone (graduates, parents, students and teachers): think back to some of your most fulfilling work at Fraser Woods Montessori.  It was independent and autonomous.  It was complex and difficult.  Above all, however, it was satisfying and rewarding.

My advice to our graduates is:
Remember that rewards of meaningful work are infinite--it pays you back with as much as you put in.  Reap the unlimited rewards that life has to offer you by finding your meaningful work and throwing yourself into it.

The philosopher Theodore Geisel commented wisely on the rewards of finding your own meaningful work.  Do you know who Theodore Geisel is?  Dr. Seuss!  He said:

“You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes
You can steer yourself
any direction you choose.
You're on your own.  And you know what you know.
And YOU are the guy who'll decide where to go.

You'll look up and down streets.  Look 'em over with care.
About some you will say, ‘I don't choose to go there.’
With your head full of brains and your shoes full of feet,
you're too smart to go down any not-so-good street.

And you may not find any
you'll want to go down.
In that case, of course,
you'll head straight out of town.

It's opener there
in the wide open air.

Out there things can happen
and frequently do
to people as brainy
and footsy as you.

And when things start to happen,
don't worry.  Don't stew.
Just go right along.
You'll start happening too.

Congratulations!
Today is your day.
You're off to Great Places!
You're off and away!”

Exerpted from Oh The Places You’ll Go, by Dr. Seuss

I love you all, 8th years!  Good luck!

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Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Impossible Things

This is the graduation speech that I gave today for my 8th year students.


Impossible Things
by Rebecca Kaplan

When Alice journeyed through the looking glass, Lewis Carroll tells us, she came across a Queen who claimed to be "one hundred and one, five months and a day."
“I can’t believe THAT!” said Alice.
“Can’t you?” said the Queen in a pitying tone. “Try again: draw a long breath, and shut your eyes.”
Alice laughed. “There’s no use trying,” she said, “one can’t believe impossible things.”
“I daresay you haven’t had much practice,” said the Queen. “When I was your age, I always did it for half-an-hour a day. Why sometimes I believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast!”

There is a lot to be said for believing in impossible things.  Especially when you are graduating from 8th grade...8th grade!  It is a very exciting time now.  I know today is exciting for a lot of reasons, but if’ you’ll bear with me, I am a science buff of sorts and a teacher, so I was really speaking about excitement in terms of educational research, sorry.

It’s an exciting time to be 13 or 14 years old!  For years and years, we’ve been living with the incredibly pessimistic paradigm that our share of intelligence is set from birth.  That, intellectually speaking, in the words of my 4 year old, “you get what you get and you don’t get upset”.  Now, we’ve found that the human brain doesn’t fully mature until you are 24 years old and that beyond that age, the influences on our brain structure and function are only limited by our interactions with the world.  

There has also been this false idea about the relationship between inheritance and how intelligent we are. The idea that our genes provide a fixed set of instructions to code for a certain level or type of intelligence is not supported by data.  In fact, genes don’t give fixed instructions for anything specific at all!  They are constantly switching on and off, in a dynamic interaction with the environment.  Anywhere we go, anything we do, anyone we speak with influences how our genetic material is expressed in our brain cells or any other cell!

What’s interesting to me is that the originator of the first widely used intelligence test was a man named Alfred Binet--he was the co-creator of the Binet-Simon intelligence test--wrote this in 1905:

"[Some] assert that an individual's intelligence is a fixed quantity which cannot be increased. We must protest and react against this brutal pessimism...With practice, training, and above all method, we manage to increase our attention, our memory, our judgment, and literally to become more intelligent than we were before."

It was this IQ test that was changed and adapted by a researcher at Stanford named Terman, and gave us the ubiquitous Stanford-Binet IQ test along with giving us the idea of a fixed quantity intelligence.

So, to our extraordinary 8th years:
Believing impossible things is an imperative, especially now that the newer field of systems biology is showing us that no gene can be studied independently from it’s environment, and the environment that your genes are growing up in includes the thoughts you are thinking about what your cells can do or not do!

Carol Dweck, an award winning researcher who is currently at Stanford University wrote a research paper called “Is Math a Gift?”.  She found that when students have a certain intellectual ability and view that intellectual ability as a gift (that is, a fixed quantity...unchangeable...something you inherit like the family silver) this leads students to question that ability and lose motivation when they encounter setbacks. In contrast, viewing intellectual ability as a quality that can be developed leads students to seek active and effective remedies in the face of difficulties.

I’d like to translate that for you:  Believe Impossible Things!  And if you practice believing impossible things, you’ll get even better at believing those impossible things AND better at actually doing the things you’re imagining you can do that you never thought you could!  

This is a pretty mind-blowing idea.  Think about that for a moment.  

So, kids, this is a really exciting time to be 13 or 14 and graduating from 8th grade....you have about a full decade or so until you have figured out what you are capable of, and then you have the unmitigated joy of being able to go about the business of fulfilling those capacities.  

What I’m  talking about when I say capacity is creative capacity, intellectual capacity, capacity for compassion or love.  All of these are complex human traits, and what the recent research is telling us is that we can influence all of them.  If you want more creativity, you can have it.  If you want more intelligence, you can have that.  If you want more love, you can even have that too.  We can influence these traits through our teaching and parenting and
we can influence them with our thoughts, desires and actions as individuals.  

I’d like to close with a favorite poem of mine, called Wild Geese written by the Pulitzer-Prize winning American Poet, Mary Oliver:
Wild Geese

You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting--
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.
© Mary Oliver.


8th years:
You are infinite and amazing.
Believe. impossible. things.  Every single day.  For at least 30 minutes. :)
Congratulations...I will miss you!

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